life as 16 years old girl
▶ 20 December, 2014 6:03 AM 0 comment



 
yuhuu!

okay. Pejam celik pejam celik dah 16 tahun dh aku hidup. Dah nak masuk alam dewasa. Sekarang pun dah hujung 2014 dan semakin dekatlah aku dengan spm. Tapi itu perkara yang best bagi aku sebab yelah dah nak habis sekolah!! Tapi, aku tahu, nanti mesti aku yang rindu sekolah. Aku ingat bila dah masuk 16 mungkin aku boleh dapat boyfriend ke ada super power ke macam benda yang aku selalu baca dalam manga. Tapi alahai bila kita ni seorang perempuan yang dari kecil lagi sekolah semua perempuan tambah lagi dengan pemalu nya yang extrem memang 0000.0000000000000.001% untuk bergaul dengan orang lelaki. Alah tapi benda ni kecil je. It's not like the world is going to end if no guy going to talk to me. So just tunggu sampai 20 lebih mungkin sikap tu dapat berubah. Tapi nak berubah tak boleh nak tunggu berubah je, kena usaha!! Ingat ni perempuan, stop thinking that someone going to help yourself, you gotta help yourself! 

Im saying this sebab sekarang ramai perempuan fikir yang muka dah cantik badan dah cantik semua tapi tak nak belajar sungguh-sungguh. bila time future mcam mana boleh pulak dijawab nya "nnti aku kahwin dengan orng kaya" like wtf. Seriously? Kau betul betul sure yang ada laki kaya nak kat kau? Kau betul betul sure yang kau kahwin dengan laki kaya? Sebb jodoh ditangan Tuhan. And lelaki pun ada taste weh. 

Okay tu cerita peribadi lain. Saja nak selit selit kat sini sebab tu salah satu yang aku sedar dalam tahun ni. 

Remember parents, 16 years old is still a stage where your children's behavior is still effected by what they see and by  what they hear. Stop judging your children by their physical look! Even though body is big their inside is still kid. Yes, yes, you want them to be independent but still! Be by their side when they need someone, be by their side when they are depressed, stop showing bad behavior to them! They will get influenced by it! You don't want to call your children "disrespectful kids" when they doing something to you which they knew how to do it from you. 

This is something i want to tell the world. Lot of teens get hurt from this and i want to tell them too that they are not alone. Tell ur parents if u feeling sad. Tell then why. Don't keep to yourself too much. Because even vase can break into pieces if you put too much soil in it.

So i merry christmas to the christians and happy new year to the world! Lots of love, Tini ❤️

p/s: Thank God for every memories that i had for this whole 2014, even though it's a bitter but there always sweet to cure it  (✿◠‿◠)
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